Dating a mature man

29 Dec

Wipp was immediately attracted to Sutherland’s youthful energy, which was a far cry from the cynical guys closer to her age.

I hear that these days, new initiates are taken to camps where they’re taught stuff about life.

A certain community has began taking its boys to Mt Kenya forest after circumcision. May be it’s because I never had a brother and knew from the beginning that I had to defend myself from external aggression.​ One man called Shabu, the brother of ‘Zingich,’ taught me that one always has to ensure he is the alpha male in a group.

When is the boy child mature enough to be called a man? ALSO READ: Here is how to know if you are dating a gold digger Traditionally - and in many societies - one became a man after initiation.

But that ended in the early 1990s when mothers started pampering their boys.

Never let others look down on you or use you as a foot soldier.Today however, I don’t want to discuss that, all I have is a word of advice to sisters of the ‘mahewa generation.’ I know most women fantasise about white weddings, marrying into money, and having a lovely family. This is why Kenyan men hide their wives Being the son of an economist, I was told to be careful about what I invest in - investing in emotions and crushes is not my thing.But those fantasies are best left in Mills and Boons novels. I usually advise women that in choosing a life partner, they should pick a mature man, one who would understand that their beauty won’t last forever, that their curvy bodies will wither and they will start walking funny in old age. He should at least be a decade older since women mature faster.So, to avoid weddings that last a few days, it’s wise to get hitched to a mature man. At that age, a man has been there, done that and won a T-shirt.“Everybody thought this was a little phase, that I was just having a crisis.” But friends and family came around to accepting the couple after they’d been dating for a year and it became clear that Sutherland had serious intentions.